WHAT KIND OF WOMEN DO MEN WANT?

That's a very good question many women will want to know and at times ask themselves when they are rejected. Every guy wants the perfect girl, often times that mean a girl that is not tainted or that has been with few men. Yet some don't mind messing with an easy girl, just as long as they have decided they have no plans to marry that girl. Guys often want a girl that is hard to get, as they like the challenge; a girl that is easy gets boring after awhile and they seem look elsewhere for a new pursuit. There are guys who try to sleep with as many girls as they can just for fun, and can boast about for the future (I am sure most girls don't want to end with a guy like that.)Some guys may think that it is a turn-off if a girl is still a virgin in her early adulthood. But a girl's virginity shows a lot of beauty in a girl, just like purity. Some people are either blind to beauty like that or just don't realize how precious a gift it is. In the traditional Catholic world, it is strongly encouraged and preached on as well as described. Purity of heart is also a great characteristic. True beauty is not skin deep, but stems from the inner soul. Virginity can only be given away once, so give to the one person you want to spend your life with.

A guy who is serious in looking for that special girl will look more at one who is pure and not desperate. He will admire one who knows what she wants and is willing to wait for the right guy. A guy wants a girl who is focused and not too emotional. He wants a girl who doesn't let her heart direct her or throws herself at a guy. Remember, we also want to marry someone we can get along with, not someone who has "experience". We want to give ourselves in marriage as unwrapped gifts to our spouses, not one opened or "recycled". Our spouses will appreciate this a lot more as it is more special when ones purity hasn't been tainted by others. There are usually problems after marriage if one partner has been with others. I read somewhere that with non virgin brides, the divorce rate is sixty percent.  A person who puts God first, has God on their side during their marriage life. We have the rest of our married life to get experienced in intimacy.

So if a guy doesn't choose you for a permanent partner, it may be for the best. That guy may not be the right fit for you. Yes we've heard that there are many fish in the sea. But in the traditional world, there aren't a lot of options. But it certainly is better not to be married than be married to the wrong guy. Let's be patient until the person we are meant to be with shows up!